This applies to so many folks. They don’t realize they’re pushing family & friends away with F-bomb mom I sprinkle that shit like confetti tumbler shirt. If I choose to take ownership of missteps and admit that I’m getting used to his becoming mature, just like he is, then growth can occur. If I ask for a do-over, which has been a tradition since he was little, then we can move into a plan of action. We create safety and acceptance when we brainstorm together and discuss ways to do it differently next time and strive to do better. I’ve truly embraced the power with the model instead of the power over paradigm. Baby steps. *hugs* I tell you every time, Rachel, how much in awe of you I am. I want to be like you when I grow up.
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I was reading this whilst standing over my F-bomb mom I sprinkle that shit like confetti tumbler shirt at my hubby about how annoying son is being. I realized as I kept reading that my son has also changed this last year and I am not helping or being who I want to be. As always a very heartfelt reminder that sometimes the smallest shifts make the biggest difference! You honestly have been speaking to my soul ever since a friend shared ‘only love today’ as a favorite book about 2 months ago. Thank you for sharing all your pitfalls & triumphs. Let it begin with me. What comes up for me, is how much I have to love myself, to treat myself with compassion and with a growth mindset, not a fixed mindset, for this to be possible.